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Struggling this Christmas

  • Writer: Nhop
    Nhop
  • Dec 18, 2025
  • 3 min read

Updated: Apr 18


This Christmas, many face financial challenges, but true generosity comes from the heart. Discover how love and sacrifice define the season's spirit.


Transcript

Across Canada, many people are feeling the pressure of rising costs. Groceries, gas, heating, even simple necessities have become harder to afford. Because of this, Christmas may look different for many families this year. Fewer gifts, simpler gatherings, scaleback plans, and that can weigh on our hearts. It's easy to feel discouraged when the season doesn't look the way we hoped. We see others celebrating in ways we wish we could. We feel the pressure to create the perfect Christmas. And when life doesn't match our expectations, disappointment can quietly settle in. Those feelings are real and God does not ask us to hide them. But scripture also lifts our eyes. In 2 Corinthians 9:7,

Paul reminds us, "God loves a cheerful giver." This isn't about the size of the gift. It's about the heart behind it. A cheerful giver is someone who gives from love, not pressure, from devotion, not obligation. And this is where Christmas speaks so beautifully. God himself is the ultimate cheerful giver. He gave his son not reluctantly, not because he had to, not out of duty, but out of love. For God so loved the world that he gave. Jesus did not take on human flesh out of obligation. He came willingly, joyfully, sacrificially because he loves us. This is the heartbeat of Christmas. When we give, whether from abundance or from sacrifice, we reflect the very nature of

God. Some of us this year will give from a place of plenty. God has blessed us and we can bless others in visible ways. But others will give from a place of scarcity. It may be a simple meal, a handwritten note, a prayer offered in faith, or a moment spent with someone who feels alone. It may be giving encouragement when we ourselves feel discouraged. And scripture teaches us that this kind of giving, sacrificial, heartfelt, costly, is precious to God. Jesus praised the widow with two small coins because she gave from her heart. Her gift looks small to the world, but in heaven it was great. God measures giving not by the amount but by the love and trust behind it. And

this is the wonder of Christmas that God himself gave sacrificially out of love. And when we give in that spirit, we participate in his heart. When finances are tight, creativity often increases. A homemade gift, a thoughtful message, a sincere prayer, a small act of kindness. These carry the fragrance of Jesus far more than anything material. They reflect the kind of giving God delights in. Christmas was never meant to be defined by what sits under a tree. It is defined by the one who hung on a tree for our salvation. The manger points us to the cross, the greatest act of giving the world has ever known. And though and through it all, God offers us peace.

Philippians 4:7 tells us that he gives a peace that surpasses all understanding. It is a peace not based on the size of our budget or the perfection of our celebrations, but on the presence of Christ himself. Christmas does not lose its meaning when we have less. If anything, it becomes clearer. It reminds us that presence matters more than presence. That love outweighs luxury and that cheerful sacrificial giving is at the very center of God's heart. And above all, we hold to the promise of Emmanuel, God with us, with us in our joy, with us in our longing, with us in our financial pressure, with us in our giving. His presence is the greatest gift we will

ever receive. And through his strength, we can give cheerfully, sacrificially, and joyfully because this is the true meaning of Christmas. I'm Marilyn Byberg with the National House of Prayer. Merry Christmas to you all.


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